Hey Cyn! It's great to find people you fit in well with. It's not clicky. I think it's just that some people you have more in common with than others!
You could simply invite the people you enjoy spending time with to do something! That's usually how I make new friends. Oftentimes, I invite them to walk dogs LOL. Something free and easy! Or even just whatever it is that you do that you think others might enjoy?
As far as getting away from people nicely? I really have no idea how to do that. I tend to make more of an effort to attend events that I get invited too if I like the person who invited me. So I end up spending more time with that person than one who may invite me out that I don't really enjoy spending that much time with.
Chris
· 1 year ago
Oh.Wow. Tricky for sure. What I do is just stop hangin' w/them, slowly stop emailing them, and dont go to places where they are sure to be. But thats hard when one is in a group and the same people are always there. Or, you could just email them and tell them that they bug you and to stop bothering you w/their constant questions regarding their (okay, my) blog and to figure it out themselves :) Sometimes being blunt is good ! XO
feefifoto
· 1 year ago
I've been exactly where you are and found that the best way is just not to be available -- "Sorry, I'm busy ... can't talk ... I have plans that night". it's hard because someone will eventually have the chutzpah to ask what's up, but you have every right to make choices about who you want and need to hang with. Best of luck to you.
Polina
· 1 year ago
As i am asways told be my hubby "do what you think is right, enjoy doing it, make fun of it and all the people around you would be totally happy if you call them friends. You can't start loving anybody or choosing anybody if you don't adore yourself (in a good way) and are not sure that you live interesting and worthy life. People know of you only things you choose to tell them, people tend to choose those who are similar to them, so if you feel unhappy, you'll get some man you feels unhappy as well...
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You could simply invite the people you enjoy spending time with to do something! That's usually how I make new friends. Oftentimes, I invite them to walk dogs LOL. Something free and easy! Or even just whatever it is that you do that you think others might enjoy?
As far as getting away from people nicely? I really have no idea how to do that. I tend to make more of an effort to attend events that I get invited too if I like the person who invited me. So I end up spending more time with that person than one who may invite me out that I don't really enjoy spending that much time with.